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She is tempted to offer another favour just to create a reason for someone to spend time with her.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/u7LfW7HDpJg</video:player_loc><video:duration>74</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-27T07:38:19.193Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/always-texting-first-memory</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/14-memory.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Stopped Offering Favours Just to Get Company.</video:title><video:description>Deb stops texting first and the silence stings. She is tempted to offer another favour just to create a reason for someone to spend time with her.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/-FMPyyu2Kdg</video:player_loc><video:duration>102</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-27T07:41:58.485Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/saying-no-without-losing-company</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/15-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Said Yes. Then Cancelled Lunch With My Sister.</video:title><video:description>Deb cancelled lunch with her sister to finish somebody else&apos;s work. By Saturday, even the office lights wanted her to go home. With Rosie, she practises three words, remembers that her own plans count, and finally keeps time for the company she wanted.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/jJsZGX9PQsQ</video:player_loc><video:duration>205</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-27T07:50:38.273Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/saying-no-without-losing-company-desk</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/15-desk.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Said Yes Before Checking Her Own Plans.</video:title><video:description>Deb agrees to help at work before checking her own plans. On Saturday, she is alone in the office instead of having lunch with her sister.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/M-VPLY_Fn84</video:player_loc><video:duration>67</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-27T07:53:15.011Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/saying-no-without-losing-company-memory</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/15-memory.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>Her First No Was Three Words Long.</video:title><video:description>Deb agrees to help at work before checking her own plans. On Saturday, she is alone in the office instead of having lunch with her sister.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/jJcPVg9CIqc</video:player_loc><video:duration>95</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-27T07:55:28.718Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/cancelled-visit-empty-nest</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/16-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>They Cancelled. I&apos;d Already Set the Table.</video:title><video:description>The lunch was cancelled. The two plates were already on the table, and Deb had already said she was fine. With Rosie, she finds a way to admit her disappointment without making her family feel guilty, then asks for an actual new date.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/3ujUHJTnEqk</video:player_loc><video:duration>195</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-27T07:57:04.191Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/cancelled-visit-empty-nest-desk</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/16-desk.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>They Cancelled. She Said It Was Fine.</video:title><video:description>A cancelled visit is understandable. It still hurts when Deb has bought the favourite biscuits and pictured the whole afternoon together.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/1vGxDBeeN9Y</video:player_loc><video:duration>67</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-27T07:58:36.070Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/cancelled-visit-empty-nest-memory</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/16-memory.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Finally Said What &apos;It&apos;s Fine&apos; Really Meant.</video:title><video:description>A cancelled visit is understandable. It still hurts when Deb has bought the favourite biscuits and pictured the whole afternoon together.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/YHkKlB_nA20</video:player_loc><video:duration>79</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-27T08:00:19.698Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/sister-advice-when-you-need-listening</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/17-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Hung Up on My Sister. Then the House Went Quiet.</video:title><video:description>Deb wants her sister to hear about a hard day. When the conversation becomes a list of solutions, she snaps and ends the call. Then the house goes quiet.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/qHsuKOxyEIY</video:player_loc><video:duration>212</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-27T08:01:25.137Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/sister-advice-when-you-need-listening-desk</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/17-desk.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Wanted a Sister. I Got a To-Do List.</video:title><video:description>Deb wants her sister to hear about a hard day. When the conversation becomes a list of solutions, she snaps and ends the call. Then the house goes quiet.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/JgB2HYluOiY</video:player_loc><video:duration>64</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-27T08:05:02.483Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/sister-advice-when-you-need-listening-memory</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/17-memory.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Didn&apos;t Need Advice. She Needed Ten Minutes.</video:title><video:description>Deb wants her sister to hear about a hard day. When the conversation becomes a list of solutions, she snaps and ends the call. Then the house goes quiet.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/yEblPhfHpDg</video:player_loc><video:duration>104</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-27T08:06:58.817Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/reconnecting-after-years-apart</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/18-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>Four Years of Silence. Then Her Name Appeared.</video:title><video:description>June, an old work friend, sends Deb a message after years of silence. Deb wants to reply, but wonders why it has taken so long.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/EiBpTN2FoK4</video:player_loc><video:duration>217</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-27T08:08:26.348Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/reconnecting-after-years-apart-desk</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/18-desk.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>An Old Friend Texted. Why Was Replying So Hard?</video:title><video:description>June, an old work friend, sends Deb a message after years of silence. Deb wants to reply, but wonders why it has taken so long.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/kLc2aJSZGL8</video:player_loc><video:duration>92</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-27T08:10:04.433Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/reconnecting-after-years-apart-memory</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/18-memory.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>They Both Thought the Other Had Moved On.</video:title><video:description>June, an old work friend, sends Deb a message after years of silence. Deb wants to reply, but wonders why it has taken so long.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/kfc-i27tJj4</video:player_loc><video:duration>130</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-27T08:11:36.733Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/reconnecting-with-friends-we-must-catch-up</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/19-full-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>We Said &quot;We Must Catch Up.&quot; Six Months Later, I Sent This.</video:title><video:description>Six months after promising a catch-up, Deb still has no coffee date. Watch Rosie help her turn an awkward gap into one small invitation she can actually send.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/P9xHUwpf-wU</video:player_loc><video:duration>98</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/we-must-catch-up-six-months-later</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/19-a-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>The Problem With &quot;We Must Catch Up&quot;</video:title><video:description>Ever said &quot;we must catch up&quot; and never picked a day? In this Rosie and Deb Short, a six-month silence becomes one simple invitation for coffee.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/VoRjdycVRjo</video:player_loc><video:duration>33</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/asking-a-friend-for-coffee-without-overthinking</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/19-b-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>Her Coffee Invitation Had Become an Essay</video:title><video:description>Deb wants a coffee with a friend, but her message has developed an introductory chapter. Rosie helps her ask one thing, in words that sound like her.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/Lh9-DjNwcxg</video:player_loc><video:duration>48</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/feeling-alone-after-a-mistake-at-work</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/20-full-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Sent Six People the Wrong Room Number. I Couldn&apos;t Let It Go.</video:title><video:description>One wrong meeting-room number follows Deb home. Rosie listens, remembers a recent small win and helps her separate tomorrow&apos;s correction from tonight&apos;s replay.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/0Hz_CLzx9Z8</video:player_loc><video:duration>115</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/one-wrong-room-number-ruined-her-evening</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/20-a-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>One Wrong Room Number Ruined Her Evening</video:title><video:description>Deb made one small mistake at work and cannot stop replaying it at home. A Rosie and Deb Short about the quiet evening after an embarrassing day.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/nldtqXixRos</video:player_loc><video:duration>52</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/remembering-the-good-after-a-work-mistake</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/20-b-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Remembered the One Good Thing Deb Had Forgotten</video:title><video:description>Deb remembers the mistake. Rosie remembers the spreadsheet Deb was praised for. Watch a warm example of a saved memory bringing a fuller picture into a chat.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/biG-3zvcWw0</video:player_loc><video:duration>46</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/replying-late-to-a-friend-after-three-weeks</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/21-full-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Forgot to Reply. Now It&apos;s Been Three Weeks.</video:title><video:description>Deb meant to reply to a friend&apos;s good news. Three weeks later, she is still finding the words. Rosie helps her send an honest message and leave the ticks alone.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/La7tdCzHkxI</video:player_loc><video:duration>105</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/the-message-you-meant-to-reply-to</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/21-a-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>The Longer She Left the Message, the Harder It Got</video:title><video:description>A friend shared good news. Deb forgot to reply, and now the silence feels awkward. Watch Rosie help her find a warm, honest way back into the conversation.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/sNQZBTQf8gk</video:player_loc><video:duration>43</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/waiting-for-a-reply-watching-the-ticks</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/21-b-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Sent the Reply. Then Started Watching the Ticks.</video:title><video:description>Deb finally sends the overdue reply, then starts watching the ticks. A Rosie and Deb Short about wanting an answer without giving the phone your whole evening.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/Q_ThJUkF__E</video:player_loc><video:duration>45</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/living-alone-cooking-for-one-its-only-me</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/22-full-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Stopped Cooking Properly. There Was Only Me.</video:title><video:description>Deb has stopped making a proper dinner because it is &quot;only me&quot;. Rosie talks through the quiet at the table, a family memory and a simple invitation for supper.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/1udaNCgeUn0</video:player_loc><video:duration>111</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/cooking-for-one-use-the-plate</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/22-a-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Kept Saying &quot;It&apos;s Only Me&quot; About Dinner</video:title><video:description>Deb would use a proper plate for a guest. Why does dinner feel different when she is alone? A gentle Rosie and Deb Short about the everyday quiet of living alone.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/DQdHJKgeShY</video:player_loc><video:duration>49</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/inviting-someone-for-an-ordinary-dinner</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/22-b-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>Why Did an Ordinary Dinner Invitation Feel Needy?</video:title><video:description>Deb would love company for supper but worries a simple invitation sounds needy. Rosie helps her make room for an ordinary meal with someone she knows.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/9HhA4p3MbWw</video:player_loc><video:duration>44</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/meeting-neighbours-making-friends-as-an-adult</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/23-full-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Know the Delivery Driver Better Than My Neighbours.</video:title><video:description>Deb knows the delivery driver better than the people next door. Rosie helps her practise one simple hello, without turning it into an audition for friendship.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/kJV2qzaeog8</video:player_loc><video:duration>120</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/knowing-your-neighbours-bin-day-not-their-name</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/23-a-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Knew Their Bin Day. Not Their Name.</video:title><video:description>Deb and her neighbours have been nodding for years. This Rosie and Deb Short finds the lonely, funny gap between living next door and actually saying hello.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/eIGA8GEfJ7o</video:player_loc><video:duration>50</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/saying-hello-without-a-friendship-audition</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/23-b-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>One Hello Had Become a Friendship Audition</video:title><video:description>One hello has become a friendship audition in Deb&apos;s head. Rosie helps her practise an ordinary introduction, then Deb picks up her keys and heads outside.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/XZNzubY4hPY</video:player_loc><video:duration>47</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/feeling-lonely-after-a-lovely-weekend-visit</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/24-full-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Had a Lovely Weekend. Why Was Sunday So Quiet?</video:title><video:description>Deb loved her sister&apos;s visit. The quiet afterwards still hurts. Rosie makes room for both feelings, a thank-you message and a warm moment with Mabel the cat.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/_qp1rh9iAdI</video:player_loc><video:duration>117</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/the-quiet-after-everyone-leaves</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/24-a-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>The Visit Was Lovely. The Quiet Afterwards Still Hurt.</video:title><video:description>Everyone has gone home after a lovely visit, and Deb suddenly feels alone. A Rosie and Deb Short about missing company without losing the good part of the day.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/xqtC9Vesi4U</video:player_loc><video:duration>51</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/missing-your-sister-after-a-weekend-together</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/24-b-v1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Almost Asked Her Sister to Come Back</video:title><video:description>Deb almost asks her sister to come back after their weekend together. Instead, she finds a warm thank-you, puts the phone down and settles with Mabel.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/-XgVkxf-YKo</video:player_loc><video:duration>42</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-29</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/good-news-at-work-no-one-to-tell-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/03-highlight.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Got Good News at Work. Then Came Home to an Empty House.</video:title><video:description>Deb has a small win at work. At home, she nearly talks herself out of sharing it. Rosie asks what made the day good and gives that moment room to matter.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/oeTXwzv3pxE</video:player_loc><video:duration>59</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-02</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/missing-someone-to-laugh-with-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/06-highlight.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Missed Having Someone to Laugh With. Then Remembered This.</video:title><video:description>Deb misses laughing at nothing with her sister. Rosie remembers their old singing habit, and Deb finds a small, natural reason to send a message.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/jl6MkDGvKfo</video:player_loc><video:duration>53</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-02</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/joined-choir-still-feeling-like-an-outsider-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/08-highlight.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Joined the Choir. Why Did She Still Feel Like an Outsider?</video:title><video:description>Deb keeps going to choir, yet still feels like a visitor. As she tells Rosie about Sue saving her a seat and a first try at a solo, the good moments start to count too.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/QQ1AVwhA6hs</video:player_loc><video:duration>54</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-02</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/good-news-no-one-to-tell-three-rosie-deb-stories</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/25-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Had a Good Day. Why Did Coming Home Feel So Lonely?</video:title><video:description>Three Rosie and Deb stories about the good news nobody was home to hear, missing a familiar laugh, and finding a place at choir. Watch how Rosie listens, remembers and helps Deb notice what matters to her.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/qZlquA-a8Lc</video:player_loc><video:duration>509</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-02</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/want-company-but-hope-plans-get-cancelled</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/26-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>Why Do I Want Company... Then Hope My Plans Get Cancelled?</video:title><video:description>Deb wants company but hopes her evening plans fall through. A chat with Rosie, a remembered welcome and a message to Sue change how she walks through the door.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/WDzIcNaEIyU</video:player_loc><video:duration>156</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-06</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/want-to-go-out-then-hope-they-cancel-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/26-short-a.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>Why Do I Want Company... Then Hope They Cancel?</video:title><video:description>Deb wanted an invitation. Now she is inventing a boiler emergency. This Rosie and Deb Short asks whether the evening or the first few minutes feel difficult.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/WPIOr2UfD-c</video:player_loc><video:duration>45</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-06</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/nervous-walking-into-a-room-alone-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/26-short-b.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>Why Is Walking In Alone the Hardest Part?</video:title><video:description>Confident at work, Deb still dreads arriving alone. Rosie remembers Sue&apos;s welcome at choir, and one honest message reveals they both feel the same way.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/eWe0BgLVd7I</video:player_loc><video:duration>35</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-06</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/hosting-friends-but-feeling-left-out</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/27-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>My Friends Were in the Next Room. I Ate Alone.</video:title><video:description>Deb&apos;s friends fill her living room while she eats over the sink. Rosie recalls an old joke, and Deb lets someone help so she can join her own evening.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/FuBTul6sL50</video:player_loc><video:duration>137</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-06</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/always-giving-friends-lifts-wanting-to-be-included</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/28-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>They Invited Me Out. Then Sent Four Pickup Addresses.</video:title><video:description>One offered lift becomes four pickup addresses. Deb talks with Rosie about wanting to be included, changes the travel plan and joins her friends for coffee.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/cDg-DwRgIv8</video:player_loc><video:duration>134</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-06</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/afraid-to-say-what-you-want-birthday-dinner</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/29-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Said Anywhere&apos;s Fine. It&apos;s My Birthday Dinner.</video:title><video:description>Deb said anywhere was fine for her birthday dinner. Rosie remembers the chocolate cake she wanted, and Deb asks whether the restaurant booking can change.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/9kuEsP6IngU</video:player_loc><video:duration>135</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-06</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/too-busy-hosting-to-enjoy-the-evening-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/27-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Invited Everyone Over. Then Ate Alone.</video:title><video:description>Everyone offered to help, but Deb kept saying no. In this Rosie and Deb Short, handing over the pudding makes room for a seat, a laugh and a familiar song.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/PhxPX05phdg</video:player_loc><video:duration>32</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-06</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/do-my-friends-only-want-a-lift-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/28-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>Was I Their Friend... or Just the Lift?</video:title><video:description>Four pickup addresses leave Deb wondering whether her friends only want a lift. Rosie remembers Sue&apos;s welcome, and taking the bus brings a different answer.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/zGjofazNVt0</video:player_loc><video:duration>33</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-06</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/choosing-your-own-birthday-dinner-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/29-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Chose My Birthday Dinner. Everyone Survived.</video:title><video:description>Saying anywhere was fine left Deb with a birthday menu she disliked. Rosie recalls her chocolate-cake wish, and Deb finally suggests the dinner she wants.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/rvgH3TfzIHw</video:player_loc><video:duration>36</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-06</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/saying-yes-when-you-already-have-plans</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/30-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Bought Two Tickets. Then Offered to Babysit.</video:title><video:description>Deb nearly gives up her comedy tickets to babysit. In this Rosie and Deb story, asking a friend along leaves room for company as well as helping others.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/34tETf7BkPc</video:player_loc><video:duration>124</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-10T02:31:30.466Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/nearly-missed-my-own-night-out-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/30-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Nearly Missed My Own Night Out to Be Useful.</video:title><video:description>Being useful feels easier than inviting a friend. Deb nearly misses her own night out, then asks Sue to come in this short Rosie and Deb conversation.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/VOVt_-2khM8</video:player_loc><video:duration>29</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-10T02:50:23.735Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/work-laptop-at-family-dinner</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/31-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Went to Dinner. My Work Laptop Came Too.</video:title><video:description>A quick work favour follows Deb to dinner with her sister. Rosie asks about the deadline, and an old photo album gives their evening a different direction.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/Eg_Ot-Egt0I</video:player_loc><video:duration>122</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-10T02:40:00.736Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/sister-invited-me-i-brought-work-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/31-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>My Sister Invited Me. I Brought Work Instead.</video:title><video:description>Deb brings work to her sister&apos;s dinner, though the task can wait until tomorrow. An old photo album and a warm pudding win this short Rosie and Deb story.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/CA4zr6sp1LE</video:player_loc><video:duration>36</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-10T02:54:53.288Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/always-taking-photos-never-in-them</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/32-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Took Every Photo. I Wasn&apos;t in a Single One.</video:title><video:description>Deb took every photo of a lovely afternoon but appears in none. Rosie asks what makes a picture worth keeping, and Deb decides to hand the camera over.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/avTNesZBQoE</video:player_loc><video:duration>127</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-10T02:45:59.562Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/finally-in-the-photo-kept-it-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/32-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Finally Got in the Photo. It&apos;s Terrible. I Kept It.</video:title><video:description>Deb finally hands over the camera. Her sister makes her laugh before the photo is taken, and the imperfect result is one she keeps in this LonelyNo Short.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/N0obVcLMPtg</video:player_loc><video:duration>32</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-10T03:00:14.887Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/feeling-unheard-when-your-story-gets-interrupted</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/33-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Started a Story. Nobody Heard the Ending.</video:title><video:description>Deb stops mid-story and nobody notices. A funny mishap with her office pass gives her a reason to finish the tale with her sister in this Rosie and Deb story.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/up5NdersExk</video:player_loc><video:duration>106</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-11T01:11:29.346Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/stopped-mid-story-nobody-noticed-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/33-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Stopped Mid-Story. Nobody Even Noticed.</video:title><video:description>A family conversation moves on before Deb reaches the punchline. She asks her sister for a moment to finish, and the laugh was worth it in this LonelyNo Short.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/HgaemvDGLLc</video:player_loc><video:duration>28</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-11T01:18:10.893Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/avoiding-someone-you-like-nothing-interesting-to-say</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/34-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Hid Behind the Cereal. From Someone I Like.</video:title><video:description>Deb hides in the cereal aisle from an old colleague she likes. Rosie asks what they used to enjoy talking about, and an ordinary hello becomes a good catch-up.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/0OIsHn6bvqw</video:player_loc><video:duration>112</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-11T01:08:02.090Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/hid-from-someone-i-like-cereal-aisle-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/34-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Hid From Someone I Like. She&apos;d Already Seen Me.</video:title><video:description>Deb hides from someone she likes because her news feels ordinary. One hello leads to fifteen lovely minutes beside the cornflakes in this Rosie and Deb Short.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/UeOceOjUeHk</video:player_loc><video:duration>31</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-11T01:15:42.899Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/embarrassed-to-share-something-you-made</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/35-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Brought a Cake. Then Pretended It Wasn&apos;t Mine.</video:title><video:description>Deb hides her homemade cake behind the shop-bought ones. A chat with Rosie brings her back to why she baked it: a lovely evening and something worth sharing.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/FB_Y62omqW4</video:player_loc><video:duration>107</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-11T01:13:31.554Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/hid-my-wonky-cake-shared-a-slice-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/35-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Hid My Wonky Cake. Then Sat Down for a Slice.</video:title><video:description>Deb nearly hides the cake she brought to share. Admitting she made it leads to a slice and a chat with Sue in this warm, funny Rosie and Deb Short.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/fIO0a3yd3B8</video:player_loc><video:duration>28</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-11T01:20:13.393Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/waving-at-the-wrong-person-awkward-moment</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/36-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Waved Back. She Was Waving at Someone Behind Me.</video:title><video:description>Deb waves back at someone greeting the woman behind her. A hurried hair adjustment fails, but the awkward moment becomes a friendly hello outside a flower shop.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/sqORBmkT1hw</video:player_loc><video:duration>101</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-11T11:20:04.890Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/waved-at-wrong-person-tried-to-hide-it-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/36-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Waved at the Wrong Person. Then Tried to Hide It.</video:title><video:description>Deb disguises a mistaken wave as doing her hair. When the woman waves again, a shared joke turns the awkward moment into a lovely chat in this LonelyNo Short.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/soZbTh-cSUo</video:player_loc><video:duration>33</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-11T11:27:57.441Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/said-goodbye-then-walked-the-same-way</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/37-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Said Goodbye. Then We Walked the Same Way.</video:title><video:description>Deb says goodbye to a colleague, then walks beside him to the same bus stop. Rosie hears how three awkward farewells become ten minutes of ordinary company.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/NqaB03VukQY</video:player_loc><video:duration>116</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-11T11:22:59.439Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/three-goodbyes-same-bus-stop-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/37-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>We Said Goodbye Three Times. Then Reached the Same Bus Stop.</video:title><video:description>After three goodbyes, Deb and her colleague reach the same bus stop. Naming the awkwardness starts a much nicer conversation in this short Rosie and Deb story.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/idZW86ie0OU</video:player_loc><video:duration>31</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-11T11:30:32.809Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/said-you-too-to-enjoy-your-meal</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/38-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Said &apos;You Too&apos; to &apos;Enjoy Your Meal&apos;. Then Tried to Fix It.</video:title><video:description>Deb tells the waiter &apos;you too&apos; when he says &apos;enjoy your meal&apos;, then calls him back to explain. Rosie hears how a quiet lunch turns into a shared joke.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/FyY4Yqugwso</video:player_loc><video:duration>108</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-11T11:25:39.030Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/you-too-called-the-waiter-back-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/38-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Said &apos;You Too&apos;. Then Called the Waiter Back.</video:title><video:description>Deb tries to fix saying &apos;you too&apos; to a waiter and makes it funnier. A later thank-you brings the joke back in this short Rosie and Deb cafe story.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/VORK-6Jec_0</video:player_loc><video:duration>27</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-11T11:33:00.561Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/feeling-left-out-before-sending-a-text</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/13-highlight.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>Feeling Left Out? Before You Send That Text...</video:title><video:description>A dinner photo leaves Deb feeling left out by her choir friends. Talking with Rosie gives her room to ask what happened without deciding the answer first.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/OBP4JdcJXms</video:player_loc><video:duration>44</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-28</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/practising-saying-no-making-room-for-your-plans</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/15-highlight.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Practised Saying No. Nobody Fainted.</video:title><video:description>Deb starts cancelling her own plans before anyone asks her to. Rosie gives her room to practise saying &apos;I have plans&apos; without a long explanation.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/FtmXYZCuQE4</video:player_loc><video:duration>49</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-28</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/wanting-someone-to-listen-before-giving-advice</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/17-highlight.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>Feeling Lonely? This One Question Was a Relief.</video:title><video:description>Deb wants to finish a story, not receive a plan for fixing everything. Rosie asks whether she wants ideas or listening, and Deb chooses what she needs.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/sA9Dnae4NcI</video:player_loc><video:duration>50</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-28</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/reconnecting-with-an-old-friend-after-years-apart</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/18-highlight.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>They Both Thought It Was Too Late to Say Hello.</video:title><video:description>An old friend&apos;s message brings back four years of silence. Deb and Rosie talk about a simple reply that does not need to explain the whole gap.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/ei7e8hJWdGQ</video:player_loc><video:duration>60</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-28</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/always-texting-first-asking-a-friend-to-make-plans</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/14-highlight.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>Always the One Who Texts First? Deb Tried Saying This</video:title><video:description>Deb is tired of always texting first. With Rosie, she practises asking a friend to choose a day for coffee, without offering another favour first.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/OK3pQKPdJlE</video:player_loc><video:duration>53</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-30</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/disappointed-when-family-cancel-a-visit</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/16-highlight.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Said &apos;It&apos;s Fine&apos; When the Visit Was Cancelled</video:title><video:description>Deb says a cancelled family visit is fine, but she misses the ordinary time together. Talking with Rosie helps her find a more honest answer and ask for another date.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/QLsGwYFi8UU</video:player_loc><video:duration>55</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-30</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/replaying-a-hurtful-work-comment-after-work</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/04-highlight.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Replayed One Work Comment All Evening. Then Said This</video:title><video:description>A sharp work comment follows Deb home. Rosie asks whether she wants to let it out or think about tomorrow, before Deb chooses how to raise it with her colleague.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/w3EK8puzpqw</video:player_loc><video:duration>48</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-30</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/wanting-company-on-your-birthday-despite-messages</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/05-highlight.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>Birthday Messages Everywhere. Still Wanting Someone There?</video:title><video:description>Deb appreciates her birthday messages and still wants someone there. With Rosie, she finds a simple way to invite her sister for cake.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/6uXfkjs2Phs</video:player_loc><video:duration>58</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-09-30</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/empty-nest-missing-ordinary-chats-with-grown-children</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/09-highlight.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>She Missed the Calls Where Nothing Needed Fixing</video:title><video:description>Deb misses the everyday chats with her grown children, as well as the big updates. 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Watch a funny story about joining in, and try a free chat with Rosie.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/12BYpeHVJU0</video:player_loc><video:duration>95</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-16T01:21:18.541Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/singing-car-window-open</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/45-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Was Singing in the Car. The Window Was Open.</video:title><video:description>Deb enjoys a private concert in her parked car until she notices the open window. Watch her chat with Rosie and try the free LonelyNo demo.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/4Vgcv8ovriU</video:player_loc><video:duration>97</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-16T01:23:49.037Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/voice-note-cat-interrupted</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/46-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Sent a Voice Note. Half of It Was to the Cat.</video:title><video:description>Deb&apos;s cheerful voice note becomes a conversation with Mabel the cat. Her sister hears it all. Watch the story and try a free chat with Rosie.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/9guGqg4XPwc</video:player_loc><video:duration>97</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-16T01:26:59.193Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/fake-call-rang-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/44-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Was on a Fake Call. Then My Phone Rang.</video:title><video:description>A fake call was meant to make joining choir less awkward. Then Deb&apos;s phone rang. Watch the Short and meet Rosie in the free LonelyNo demo.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/C-JwMd0E5mI</video:player_loc><video:duration>29</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-16T01:30:31.423Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/open-car-window-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/45-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Was Singing. She Was Outside the Open Window.</video:title><video:description>Deb thought her parked-car singing was private. Helen heard the whole thing. 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Watch the Short and try a free conversation with Rosie.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/8gDm1L9Qsco</video:player_loc><video:duration>28</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-16T01:37:22.152Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/invited-friend-talked-her-out-of-it</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/47-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Invited Her Round. Then Talked Her Out of It.</video:title><video:description>Deb invites a friend round, then makes it sound like a cancellation. Watch her story about wanting company, and try a free chat with Rosie.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/rkDz6g1qQxY</video:player_loc><video:duration>72</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-16T23:32:00.590Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/knew-quiz-answer-stayed-quiet</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/48-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Knew the Answer. I Let Them Write the Wrong One.</video:title><video:description>Deb knows the quiz answer but stays quiet. A pencil passed across the table changes the evening. 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Watch her finally say thank you in this warm, funny Rosie and Deb Short.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/yRgsKP9GN4Q</video:player_loc><video:duration>22</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-16T23:48:15.022Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/pretended-seen-film-only-trailer</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/50-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Said I&apos;d Seen the Film. Then She Asked My Favourite Bit.</video:title><video:description>Deb says she has seen a film, then gets asked about the ending. 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A funny story about trying to impress a friend and enjoying her company.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/spHmmuNdDiI</video:player_loc><video:duration>75</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-19T21:32:30.178Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/apologised-to-mannequin-shop-conversation</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/55-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Said Sorry Twice. It Was a Mannequin.</video:title><video:description>Deb apologises twice to a mannequin. The assistant hears, makes a joke, and an awkward shop moment becomes a real conversation with someone nearby.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/uWJOZFkU82k</video:player_loc><video:duration>83</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-19T21:37:35.046Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/broken-camera-wrong-button-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/53-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>My Camera Was &apos;Broken&apos;. Then I Hit the Wrong Button.</video:title><video:description>Deb wants to see her sister without being seen in her dressing gown. The camera switches on, and her sister has an admission of her own.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/r3ooHdHY1_8</video:player_loc><video:duration>30</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-19T21:43:04.995Z</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/promised-shortcut-same-bench-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/54-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Promised a Shortcut. We Passed the Same Bench Three Times.</video:title><video:description>Deb wants to give Sue a lovely walk. Instead, they keep passing the same bench. 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A warm goodbye changes her journey home in this Rosie and Deb story about feeling included.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/E610gE1w1AE</video:player_loc><video:duration>73</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-22T02:21:36.186392+00:00</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/empty-diary-hiding-wanting-company</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/57-full.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Checked My Diary. There Was Nothing in It.</video:title><video:description>Deb pretends to check her busy diary when Sue asks her for coffee. The weekend is empty, and she would love to say yes. 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Sue spots her coat, everyone says goodbye, and Deb leaves smiling in this complete Short.</video:description><video:player_loc>https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/ikhj_7dJXvU</video:player_loc><video:duration>30</video:duration><video:publication_date>2026-10-22T02:32:33.160650+00:00</video:publication_date></video:video></url><url><loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/empty-weekend-coffee-invitation-short</loc><video:video><video:thumbnail_loc>https://lonelyno.com/stories/57-short.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc><video:title>I Said &apos;Let Me Check&apos;. My Whole Weekend Was Empty.</video:title><video:description>Deb checks an empty diary so she will not sound too keen. 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